When faced with simple choices such as what to have for dinner, what film to see, or what color to paint a room, pretty much everyone can come up with a decision with little to no effort.
When it comes to life choices, where to live, what work path to take, or whom to spend your life with, things can get more complicated! You must weigh all the chances carefully because the choice you make can affect you and your family for years to come; My bestie and I have been having a bit of a disagreement over one of the choices for the past two weeks and I am beginning to wonder if my great friend and I will ever agree, then things are pretty severe and I was genuinely starting to feel like she was the “one”.
Then, she asked me, out of the red, if I would be willing to follow him up North due to a task she had been gave. I am a southern girl, born and bred, and I cherish the warmth and sun here. I can’t imagine being cooped up in a condo for six months or more enduring the endless cold and ice. Even with the best of Heating and Air Conditioning system I just know that I will be angry. I will also feel like I am residing in stagnant air because I won’t be able to open the windows and air out the house. I get that this is an opportunity that could make our lives easier, financially, but, I just don’t see how our relationship could survive if I were unhappy with where my great friend and I are residing.