I am one of those people who tends to freak out about privacy as well as personal space, generally speaking.
I do not like people in my room, looking at my things, or moving any of my items around.
I have an issue with controlling my environment as well as keeping everything exactly where I left it. That being said, I’m trying absolutely strenuous to let go of some of these anxieties, especially considering how several house guests my buddy and I have these days. I hardly have any privacy whatsoever, with all the humans rotating through our home. I’ve managed to let go quite a bit, however every so often I’m reminded of my underlying troubles. For instance, last weekend when our in laws stayed over as well as managed to chop our heating system within 2 days. My friend and I were out of town, however allowed them to use our house for the weekend. On their way out the door, they thought it would be kind to shut off the heating as well as cooling system to reduce our energy usage while the house was vacant. Little did they know, they would do a lot of Heating as well as Air Conditioning disfigurement with their good intentions. You see, they are accustomed to living in Florida heat. When they arrived, it was going to be only 60 degrees outside, so I powered up the heating system to a low operating level for extra warmth to keep them comfortable. They clearly didn’t realize that the heat was running, interpreting the slightly freezing outdoor air as indoor AC. As such, as they left the house, the temperature control was bumped up to 85 degrees in order to keep the a/c from cycling unnecessarily. Well, flash forward to our arrival home 5 days later… The house was burning hot, humid, as well as stagnant inside, as well as our heating system was a smoldering, inoperable hunk of metal. Our energy bill was through the roof, as well as my buddy and I have to update our central heating system. So much for saving us cash.