Did you ever have someone that gave you an upset feeling? I am sure you can relate when I tell you about the neighbor I have next door, there’s an older gentleman that lives on one side of me & he is consistently watching me to see what I am doing.
I feel he feels I have no idea how to take care of a house… Each time I do any sort of work in the yard or small maintenance on the household I feel as though he is judging me.
I wish he would just mind his own business; At least that is how I felt until the other afternoon when he stopped me in my driveway. I thought he was going to tell me I was doing everything wrong however it turned out he wanted to help me, however he had noticed that I was toiling around the household getting things ready for winter & he gave me some advice that surprise me. I have only owned the household for about 6 months so I had no idea that I should cover my outside Heating & Air Conditioning component so the snow & ice did not detriment it. I entirely thought all I had to do was turn off the cooling system & turn on the heat however he told me that the buildup of heavy snow & ice could genuinely detrimentd the inside of the unit. He took me over to his locale & showed me a cover that he had built that was resting in his shed & offer to help me build one as well. As I talk to him I realized that he wasn’t necessarily judging me for what I did not know however he was observing to see what I might need help with as a new homeowner.